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Episode 43: From Home to Hired, with Ashley Connell
43% of women leave the workforce to have children and if they are out for just 3 years they lose 37% of their lifetime compensation power. Danielle and Kristy talk with Ashley Connell, Founder and CEO of Prowess Project, an organization dedicated to helping women re-enter the workforce by providing resources for connection, upskilling, and jobs. We cover other staggering statistics, male allyship, and how dealing with a tantrum-throwing two year old could make you the perfect candidate to manage executive stakeholders.

Episode 42: Childfree by Choice, with Julie Brown
Danielle and Kristy talk with Julie Brown about what it is like to be childfree by choice. 48% of women between ages 15 to 44 don’t have kids, yet often childfree women face unwelcome commentary and are asked to give an explanation. We talk about the need to normalize being childless, how not to respond when someone tells you that they’ve chosen to be childfree, and exactly how many cats you need to own before earning the title of ‘crazy cat lady’.

Episode 41: Rebroadcast; Big Talk About Whiteness, with Kate Schatz
It’s been just over a year since the death of George Floyd drove our increased awareness of social injustice and of our own white privilege. Big Talk about Whiteness is one of our most downloaded episodes and it was a catalyst for us to be more open to personal conversations… to live up to the name of this podcast and be willing to engage in more than small talk even when it's uncomfortable. Enjoy this rebroadcast and be sure to check out our other episodes about social justice; confronting bias, black binder, and equity matters.

Episode 40: Social Media
Danielle and Kristy talk all about social media. We cover our early experiences, the upsides, and the pitfalls. We argue about the level of responsibility that tech companies should have in helping individuals to avoid social media addiction. Danielle and Kristy also discuss the inaugural 30-day Growth Mindset challenge that wrapped up this week.

Episode 39: Psychological Safety, with Nils Davis
Danielle and Kristy talk about psychological safety with Nils Davis, an author, trainer, and podcast host in the field of Product Management. We talk about what psychological safety is and why it’s important. Nils provides a series of practical tips to build psychological safety with others. We also talk about how to have psychological safety with yourself and why you might want to stop using self-deprecating humor. Danielle and Kristy geek out over their favorite podcasters reinforcing the primary philosophy of this podcast about how to live your best life.

Episode 38: Authenticity, with Michelle Anne Johnson
Danielle and Kristy talk to Michelle Anne Johnson, a consultant and facilitator that helps leaders prepare for high-visibility presentations with her research based framework, the ACP Presence model. We talk about what authenticity means, barriers people face in being authentic, and how authenticity is an ongoing practice… particularly since we grow and evolve over time. Danielle shares a productivity life hack that has been working for her.

Episode 37: How Playing Games Can Build Grit, with Dan Allbaugh
Danielle and Kristy talk to Dan Allbaugh, a game enthusiast and author of the children’s book The Gritty Little Lamb. We talk about how everyone can learn new things from playing games, what it means to have a growth mindset, and the value of the word ‘yet’.

Episode 36: Improv Leadership, with Christina McFadden
Danielle and Kristy talk to Christina McFadden, an experiential facilitator who uses improv to teach leadership. We talk bout the rules of improv and applying them to how you show up as a leader. We do an improve activity related to compliments. Christina challenges Danielle and Kristy to know what delights each other as part of working together. Christina also shares some highlights of her travels. She has been to all 50 US states and 30 countries.

Episode 35: Confronting Bias, with Janelle Scales
Danielle and Kristy talk to Janelle Scales, an anti-bias consultant, about confronting bias. It was an honest conversation about recognizing your own bias and how to work on changes internally and externally. We covered several examples of how marginalized groups are denied access through systemic issues as well as long standing biases that need to be challenged.

Episode 34: Better Friendships, with Danielle Bayard Jackson
Danielle and Kristy talk to Danielle Bayard Jackson, author, podcast host, and certified coach specializing in female friendships. We talk about what a tough love friendship is, how to sustain friendships, and what Dunbar says about the cognitive cap on the number of friendships you can reasonably maintain. Kristy and Danielle also ponder what a mid-life crisis is and talk about plusses and deltas.

Episode 33: Navigating Self-Doubt, with Elaine Blais
Danielle and Kristy talk to Elaine Blais, Life Coach, Author, Speaker and passionate encourager. We talk about self-doubt and how noticing without judgment can be a powerful catalyst for change. Kristy shares a life hack for when you are streaming shows and movies.

Episode 32: Be Bold; How to Move through Transition Without Losing Yourself, with Stacey Shipman
Danielle and Kristy talk to Stacey Shipman, a facilitator that encourages people to relinquish the formal protocols that are stifling our personality and ideas. We talk about what it means to be bold and the conditions that create the boldness needed to move through transition without losing yourself. Danielle shares a life hack about staying connected with friends.

Episode 31: Befriending the Bear, with Dr. Kara Strauss
Danielle and Kristy talk to Dr. Kara Strauss, a doctor of physical therapy who takes a holistic approach to patient care that empowers people with the knowledge and understanding of their own bodies so they can live to their maximum potential. We cover how accumulated stress presents as all kinds of pain in the body, why breathing is so special, and you can befriend your bear with acknowledgement, movement, bonding and more.

Episode 30: Year in Review
Danielle and Kristy review the past year, answer listener questions, and look to the future. This episode was recorded live on Dec 30, 2020.
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Episode 29: Love Addiction, with Katie Grimes
Danielle and Kristy talk to Katie Grimes, an International Sober Dating Coach, about love addiction and why she doesn’t want you to be “drunk in love.” We talk about the ways love addiction can manifest in your life, the difference between chemistry and connection, and how to move forward to find healthy relationships.

Episode 28: Black Binder, with Tovah Cook
This episode features Tovah Cook. Tovah is an accomplished brand creative leader who seeks justice in her daily work. She personally felt the pain and suffering of her Black brothers and sisters killed by the police. She began to challenge her peers to focus on actual movement by turning her pain into art.

Episode 27: How to Disagree without being Disagreeable, with Michael Bryant
With the holidays coming up and families that may have very differing opinions when it comes to any number of things, we thought it would be a good time to learn how to disagree without being disagreeable. Michael Bryant is our guest, known for helping people get 'unstuck', today he's lending his wisdom to help us improve our relationships when we disagree.

Episode 26: Crazy Busy is a Warning Sign, with Judy Dang
Crazy busy isn’t a badge of honor, it’s a warning sign. Danielle and Kristy talk with productivity mentor Judy Dang about the factors that lead us into a frenzied crazy busy state. While it can sometimes be inefficiencies in how we work or mismatched skill sets, it can just a as easily be things like comparison and people pleasing that cause us to say yes to too much. We talk about the mindset shifts and practical tips to help you calm the crazy and settle into a feeling of enoughness.

Episode 25: Resiliency, with Mary Jury
We talk with Mary Jury, an experienced consultant, coach, and certified Dare to Lead™ facilitator about what it means to be resilient and the importance of being radically responsible for what you are attracting in your life. Danielle and Kristy celebrate the 1 year anniversary of starting the podcast.

Episode 24: Imposter Syndrome, with Cheryl China
We interview Cheryl China, a Senior Vice President at Citizens Bank who despite career success found herself sometimes feeling like a fraud. Cheryl discovered that these feelings are normal and they even have a name, imposter syndrome. Kristy shares her experience doing a 24-hour marathon.